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  Embracing mistakes- The wisdom found in wrong decisions * In a heartfelt conversation with my 84 year old dear friend Janet, I asked her, "What did you learn from your mistakes, and how did they change you?" She shared that, looking back, the wrong choices she once thought were right ultimately made her wiser. Through reflection, she now sees what needed to change within her and understands what life was asking of her through those experiences. As Viktor Frankl wisely said, " "It did not really matter what we expected from life, but rather what life expected from us." Every poor choice we make comes  with its consequences and the experience offering valuable lessons that guide us toward better decisions in the future. Mistakes serve as opportunities for reflection, prompting us to ask ourselves: 1. What could I have done differently to achieve a better outcome? 2. What inner changes are necessary to break recurring patterns? Gaining insight from thes...

 Life constantly offers us new chances, but are we willing to embrace them? Or do we let our ego, rigid notions of right and wrong, and resistance to change hold us back? Every moment is an opportunity for growth, a chance to learn from our mistakes, make amends, and move forward. Life is generous and forgiving, always presenting us with hope and opportunities.  Seize it wholeheartedly.  Pause, reflect, reconnect, and celebrate the journey. Reflect- Reconnect - Rejoice. Margalit

  In a conversation with my 90-year-old friend Fran, who  shared a profound thought "Grieving, like loving, never ends; it only changes". This made me reflect on how loss shapes us.  The loss of a relationship or the passing of a loved one grounds us in reality, prompting us to reevaluate our relationships.  Losing a loved one and loss of a relationship has taught me to be humble. Loss humbles us.  Too often, we take the people in our lives for granted, assuming they will always be there. But we must cherish and appreciate them for their love, care, unconditional support and the impact they have on our lives. Cherishing every  moment spent together. Loss is one of life’s greatest teachers, it reminds us of life's impermanence and that no one is irreplaceable. So, love deeply, express gratitude, and make meaningful contributions to those around you.  Build beautiful memories, live life fully.  Margalit  

  Take the call  A recent incident of losing a dear friend made me reflect on the importance of staying connected. Tapan, 55, was my husband's childhood friend, having grown up together in the same colony. After his parents passed away, he relocated to his hometown, Indore. A bachelor running his own business, Tapan made it a point to stay in touch. Every week, he would call my husband to share updates about common friends. He never texted ,  he always called. Sometimes, he would call late at night or on holidays. If my husband was busy, he would return the call .  On Sunday, 23rd February 2025, Tapan called, and they had a long, heartfelt conversation. Today, we received the heartbreaking news of his sudden demise due to a heart attack. Tapan lived alone, was overweight, and had health issues. When my husband shared the news, his first words were, "Thank God I took his call." This experience made me realize how often we ignore or postpone calls, caught up in our bus...

  Why Connections Matter in a Disconnected World In a world where technology keeps us constantly connected, many people still feel deeply disconnected. Despite social media, instant messaging, and video calls, something crucial is missing—genuine, meaningful relationships. Why Humans Need Connection We are wired for relationships. Real human connections give us emotional support, help us navigate challenges, and add meaning to our lives. Research shows that people with strong social bonds are happier, less stressed, and even live longer. When we lack these connections, loneliness and emotional distress can set in. What’s Causing Disconnection? While digital communication makes it easy to stay in touch, it often leads to shallow interactions. Scrolling through posts isn’t the same as having a deep conversation. Constant screen time also takes away from real-life moments, making it harder to build meaningful relationships. How to Make Time for Real Connections 1. Prioritize Quality O...

  How to Find Meaning in Your Work  Work is a big part of our lives, but many people struggle to find purpose in what they do. Viktor Frankl’s Logotherapy teaches that meaning isn’t something we wait for, it’s something we create. No matter what job you have, you can bring more purpose into your work by changing your perspective and taking ownership of your attitude. Here’s how: 1. Focus on "Why" Instead of Just "What" Many of us go through the motions at work without thinking about the bigger picture. Instead of just asking, “What do I need to do today?” ask yourself, “Why am I doing this?” Connecting with a deeper purpose makes work more fulfilling. Ask yourself, "How does my work contribute to something bigger?" 2. Take Responsibility for Your Attitude You may not always have control over your work environment, but you can control how you respond to it. Instead of feeling stuck, ask yourself what you can do to make your job more meaningful. Instead of t...

Who is a Parent? Parenting is not just about raising a child; it’s about shaping a human being. A parent plays the role of a guide, protector, and nurturer, helping their child navigate life while preserving their individuality. True parenting means creating a safe environment where a child feels physically secure, emotionally supported, and mentally empowered.T The Role of a Parent 1. Physical Safety:  Parents are the first line of defense against any harm. This includes not just providing shelter and nourishment but ensuring the child grows up in a stable, non-violent, and healthy environment. Example: Teaching children about boundaries, both physical (e.g., safe touch) and situational (e.g., avoiding risky environments). 2. Emotional Safety:  Children need a sense of belonging and love. Parents must validate their feelings and provide reassurance during tough times. Example: If a child fails at school, instead of punishing them, a parent could ask, “How can I support you in...