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Who is a Parent?

Who is a Parent? Parenting is not just about raising a child; it’s about shaping a human being. A parent plays the role of a guide, protector, and nurturer, helping their child navigate life while preserving their individuality. True parenting means creating a safe environment where a child feels physically secure, emotionally supported, and mentally empowered.T The Role of a Parent 1. Physical Safety:  Parents are the first line of defense against any harm. This includes not just providing shelter and nourishment but ensuring the child grows up in a stable, non-violent, and healthy environment. Example: Teaching children about boundaries, both physical (e.g., safe touch) and situational (e.g., avoiding risky environments). 2. Emotional Safety:  Children need a sense of belonging and love. Parents must validate their feelings and provide reassurance during tough times. Example: If a child fails at school, instead of punishing them, a parent could ask, “How can I support you in...
  Logos Is Deeper Than Logic: Unpacking Viktor Frankl’s Profound Insight Viktor Frankl, the founder of Logotherapy, believed that the search for meaning (Logos) is at the core of human existence. In his statement, "Logos is deeper than logic," he offers a profound insight into the nature of life and the human experience. While logic appeals to reason and intellect, Logos goes beyond—it speaks to the heart, soul, and the deep purpose that gives life meaning. 1. What Is Logic? Logic is rooted in reason, facts, and systems. It helps us solve problems, analyze situations, and make rational decisions. For example, logic is what we use to calculate a budget or understand how machines work. 2. What Is Logos? Logos, derived from the Greek word for “meaning,” refers to the intrinsic purpose or significance in life. It’s the inner compass that drives us to seek answers to deeper questions like. Why am I here? What gives my life value? How can I make a difference? Why Logos Goes Beyond ...
  Being Different Does Not Mean Being Bad: Embracing LGBTQ+ Identities in Indian Society In a world where individuality should be celebrated, being different often brings with it a burden of judgment. For members of the LGBTQ+ community, this burden can feel especially heavy in societies like India, where traditional norms often dictate what is considered acceptable. But being different is not wrong; it’s a testament to the beautiful diversity of human experiences. The Struggles of Acceptance in Indian Society India has made progress in recognizing LGBTQ+ rights, particularly with the decriminalization of Section 377 in 2018. Yet, legal acknowledgment does not always translate to social acceptance. Many individuals from the LGBTQ+ community face challenges such as: 1. Family Pressure: Traditional family structures often prioritize heterosexual marriages and parenthood, leaving little room for acceptance of queer identities. Many LGBTQ+ individuals fear rejection, disownment, or for...

Unlock Your Potential

  Unlock Your Potential: A Guide for Young Adults to Live Authentically As you navigate the transformative years between 18 and 28, you are laying the foundation for your future. This is the time to explore, learn, and shape your identity. To truly thrive, you need to break free from societal norms and embrace your unique path. Here are some key principles to guide your journey:   1. Identify Your Uniqueness Each of us is a blend of experiences, talents, and perspectives. Reflect on what makes you different from others. Is it your creativity, empathy, analytical skills, or resilience? Recognizing your uniqueness is the first step toward self-discovery. Ask yourself: What are my natural strengths? What activities make me lose track of time?   2. Find Your Niche. Your niche is the intersection of your passion, skills, and what the world needs. Instead of trying to excel in everything, focus on areas where you can make a meaningful impact. Experiment with different opportuni...
 Reflect Change Transcend.  Patterns WE Carry:  We carry energetic patterns both Positive & Negative not only of our Parents but also of our ancestors.  The patterns are not only how we adopt behaviours or lifestyles but also belief systems .   Our belief about money, food, religion , society , how we treat  women, children ,elders  in our homes are either consciously or  unconsciously imbibed by us  We as adults have the Choice to reflect and change Negative patterns that do not support our growth and are not in tune with our values.  We need to constantly question patterns that are destructive .   Understanding that  patterns adapted by our ancestors were  a result of the times they have lived and their experiences ,  may not serve us today.  If we have a particular negative belief or pattern  that does not help us in our growth  we need to change it no matter how many years we have live...

Healing is as effective as the healer is healed.

Healing is as effective as the Healer is  Healed. The untimely death of the actor Sushant Singh Rajput, has the whole nation gripped in shock and sadness.  It has raised a few questions in my mind? This is not the first time anyone has committed suicide but what drives them to this extreme step of giving up on themselves, their families, their loved ones. Why does someone commit suicide? Why does one feel so  helpless that they feel there is no way out? Why do people give up ?  What can we as individuals do to help ourselves and our loved ones family, friends,colleagues to cope &  survive despite what they  are going through in their lives. Not everyone is born with a mighty will.  Most people need help .  It could be a small thing as just being heard .  Just being there . First we need to heal ourselves of our sorrow, pain, anger, fear, trauma we carry within us.    When we work on ourselves we can help the other. ...

WE ARE THE ENERGY WE CARRY

WE ARE TH ENERGY WE CARRY.   Energy is everywhere and in everything.  Energy affects us.  Since the time we are born,  who  we are is determined by the experiences we have and how we  perceive these experiences.   The emotions we hold or carry about the experience affect our being both positively and negatively. Energy is movement .. When we have a Positive emotion  the  energies magnify, they become radiant, they align with our core being.and vibrate at higher frequencies.   When we have a negative emotion  our energies become dull, they shrink and disconnect from our being and vibrate at lower frequencies. Our emotions are key  to understanding  the energy we carry.  Emotions are the language of our being.  The feelings or emotions we predominantly carry becomes ones energy. Holding on to negative emotions is toxic to our being. Negative emotions like anger, worry, fear, hatred, disappointment ,guilt...